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The Legacy of the Pals Social Club began in 1925 by four visionary women, including Vivian Lowery Vincent, an innovative leader and the club’s founder. The Pals Social Club has been dedicated to introducing African American college women into society and fostering their social development and civic engagement. Guided by the motto “Pleasant Attitude Toward Life,” the organization has established a tradition of cultural enrichment, mentorship, and pride that inspires future generations. In 1928, the Pals hosted their inaugural African American debutante ball, setting the stage for a tradition that continues to honor and celebrate young African American debutantes as they transition into society. The Pals Debutante program has become a cherished San Antonio tradition, with generations of women—including grandmothers, mothers, sisters, and other relatives—participating in the debutante cotillion. This event not only serves as a celebration but also as a vital coterie that strengthens community ties and highlights the elegance of the Black debutante ball.

Red roses are traditionally given to debutantes at their debutante ball because they symbolize love, beauty, and respect, which aligns with the ceremony’s themes of honor, tradition, and the young woman’s formal introduction to society.

The Pals Social Club Debutante Cotillion 2024

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    Moments Captured at The 2024 Debutante Ball

    A large lighted sign that says " the pals ".
    A sign that says welcome to the cotillion
    A long table with pink roses and greenery.
    A group of people sitting around a table.
    A group of people sitting at a table with candles.
    A group of women shaking hands in front of each other.
    A woman in a white dress holding onto a fan

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    Join us on Saturday, September 20th, as we celebrate The Pals Social Club's 100th anniversary with an elegant luncheon at The Westin SA North. This event honors the Pals tradition of introducing African American debutantes and their role in cultural enrichment through mentorship and social development in San Antonio. 

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